THE PSYCHOLOGICAL APPROACH TO PAIN OF ORGANIC ORIGIN: FEELING PAIN IN ITS PURE FORM
Author: admin Post Date: April 29 2009There is yet another psychological method of coping with pain, and I believe this is the best of all. It is not as complete as psychological dissociation, but it is completely free from the possible dangers which may result from the too facile use of dissociation. In this method we do not try to deny the pain, or make the part concerned numb, or stand apart from the pain. We accept it for what it is—a warning. But we accept it in its pure form without any overlay or embellishment at all. We allow ourselves to experience pure pain, simple and unadorned. When we do this we soon learn that pain—that is, pure pain—really does not hurt at all.
I have warned you several times that your success or failure with this method depends very much on your willingness to go along with me. The idea of pain in pure form not hurting is probably quite new to you. It seems strange. More than that, most likely it seems downright silly. But do not just reject the idea because of this. You have the evidence of my own personal experience and that of many patients. So let yourself go along with me.
The wise use of autosuggestion is very valuable, but the relief of pain by this method is often difficult. For it to be effective we may have to set out deliberately to increase our suggestibility. It is possible that this could have side-effects in the direction of increasing our suggestibility in other areas. These are the problems of the use of autosuggestion in the self-management of pain. Then if we consider dissociation, we see that it is essentially a disintegrating process of the mind, whereas our ultimate goal is complete integration and maturity, which of course is a manifestation of integration. A very significant point about the self-management of pain by feeling pain in its pure form is that it is essentially an integrative process. Therefore the
side-effects of learning the self-management of pain in this fashion are all to the good, and work for greater integration and maturity of the personality.
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