GAMES FOR ABSTINENT COUPLES – GAME 1: SWEET DREAMS (PART 1)
Players: Husband and wife. Activist: Either. Setting: Home or hotel.
Aim: To use dreams as a way to plant seeds of sexual desire, and waking dreams to activate that desire.
Game Plan: This game has two parts. In the first part the husband or wife (whichever is uninterested in sex) makes a concerted effort either to “seed” his or her dreams with erotic contents or merely to become aware of erotic contents that are there but have not previously risen to the surface. The interested spouse can act as a coach during this phase, questioning the uninterested spouse about his or her dreams each morning, and prompting the spouse each night.
“Did you have any sexual dreams last night?” the spouse can ask each morning. “Tell me about them.” The telling of the dreams will help the dreamer get in touch with blocked or erotic impulses and help the activist spouse to feel closer. And at night the activist spouse may simply say. “Don’t forget to have a sexual dream tonight. And especially try to have one about me, okay? I like it when you get hot for me in your dreams.”
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