GAMES FOR UNATTRACTED COUPLES – GAME 3: THE LAST PERSON ON EARTH (PART 3)
They can make up their own plot. They may gather wood or go looking for berries, edible mushrooms, and such, or fish in a stream with makeshift poles, or go to the cabin to hide from “danger.” It is important that they participate fully in the playacting of the game, which means getting in touch with the child inside them. Of course, that is half the battle, because it is the fact that they have almost totally squashed their playful inner child that renders them sexually unattracted and uninterested.
Those who cannot playact can still go to a cabin and simply repeat to one another during the course of the weekend, “I wouldn’t want you even if you were the last person on earth.” Merely repeating this comment again and again will serve to heighten awareness of the intensity of each one’s negative transference.
At a certain point the man and woman may go a step further and say:
“I’d rather masturbate than have sex with you.” “Me, too.”
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